The perfect storm.

 The perfect storm. Nobody taught me when I came of age, my father didn't tell me that women don't have testosterone, the rape hormone, yes, Neanderthals raped and even Sapiens 40 thousand years ago. So 95% of women hate sex, because they have no sexual desire, it's not bad will, nor a lack of character, but they want to get married, so 100% of women who have no sexual appetite are married, the remaining 5% who love sex are sex maniacs and will never get married so as not to go through a sexual diet of normal married life. So it's the perfect storm.

The married woman with sexual abstinence and sexual anorexia for various reasons: testosterone hormone deficiency, diet that reduces sexual appetite, sexual dysphagia for fear of feeling pain in the relationship, rape syndrome or sexual violence in the past, so the wife tries to do the worst: bypassing and controlling the husband's sexual appetite, thinking he is capable of deceiving and deluding for as long as possible, then transforming the domestic environment into a toxic one to break the romantic atmosphere, causing constant fights, or always having a headache, many crying constantly as if they were very downcast and depressed, they put their young son in the couple's bed, finally, when the supply of arguments runs out, they move on to direct confrontation.

Wrong, stupid strategy from a mind with serious cognitive problems and lack of honesty with the partner. Many think that by controlling their husband's sexual appetite through prolonged abstinence they can obtain favors and gifts in exchange for the privilege of a rare, casual moment of sexual intercourse.

It works well for three to seven years, until it bursts.

All the husband needs is three times a week, maximum, and no more than three minutes. Anyone can endure an unpleasant situation for three minutes: in line at the bank, at the health center, at work, but the married woman who abstains is so stupid that it doesn't factor into her calculations, her whim is so great that she doesn't want to be touched, penetrated in any way.

The most a normal man can handle is five minutes of sexual intercourse, of course in the first months of marriage a young man will be able to have sex three times a day, every day, but not even the best athlete in the world can maintain that level of rising heart rate. daily heart rate rising to 240 bpm, a lot of sweat, production of sperm and testosterone without needing a break for replacement, over time he loses interest in his wise wife who will soon start running after him to have more sex just when she was getting used to it, it's like trying to drink a glass full of honey, no one can do it, because three spoons of honey a day is delicious, as is sex, drinking, kissing, everything has a prudent dose to be pleasurable.

But the reckless woman ends up causing misfortune.

That football match on the weekend with your coworkers, the chubby group, after ten years your husband always comes home while the players go to have a cold beer and eat roast meat, after the football game. But that day her husband didn't want to go and went for the first time, he was discouraged from his 15-year marriage with his wife's sexual diet.

And that day the barbecue was not at the usual bar where the football crowd gathered after the game, that day it was at the house of one of the players, who casually hosted his family with his wife and children, and daughter-in-law and grandson, a sister-in-law old, pot-bellied, sagging breasts, single, but she was the standard of a single woman who knows that marriage is a sexual diet that women who really like sex never get involved in a marriage regime, they need to have many partners at any time gives the desire.

These women have a keen nose for catching their prey, the sex-starved men, ready to explode inside her a bomb of sperm pent up for years, full of sexual fantasies to do things that their wife has never allowed in bed, so she knows that he will combine the useful with the pleasant: he is married, so he will not be jealous of her with other partners, he will not propose and most importantly, he has freedom and infinite availability for the best quality sex.

Thus, due to a miscalculation and a lot of stupidity and selfishness, the wife turned a simple affair into a marital tragedy.

But there are those who exchange an excellent partner, good provider, good company, even handsome, studious, loving, responsible worker for another, simple as that.

Well, I'm not an example of beauty, I'm not ugly either, I'm every son-in-law's project for the parents of single girls, I know that, I'm very successful at school, in the professions I've embraced, even so I was exchanged for men far below my standard. my standard, even uglier ones.

The question is: why do women do this?

There is a huge range of justifications; insecurity, need for validation, anxiety, bad advice, dazzle personal enmity, seduction and excessive harassment of men.

But none of that convinces me.

I never blamed myself for these exchanges, nor do I blame women, nor do I forgive, just desire, if you observe how women are extremely superficial you soon understand that their partner is like a new pair of shoes, the next one is the most beautiful, that Once purchased, she will regret it and will never remember that pair of shoes again, so she changes her hair color every quarter, each new fashion screams in her ear and she can't stay out of fashion, so without thinking too much she spends ten hours naked shopping to choose two panties and a pair of sandals, and when you go out you spend three hours in your room choosing your clothes, then two hours at the manicure, and go through the torture session in the beauty salon with your head under a hairdryer at 60 degrees Celsius, pulling out body hair with hot wax in enormous pain, and you think women are normal beings? You're wrong, they're all psychopaths.

If you have a woman who doesn't cheat on you, who knows how to respect you and who takes care of the house, she is perfect, a unicorn, take good care of her, don't complain about the cost of beauty, clothes, be a slave to her, work to support her. her and always make her happy, don't complain about the expenses because she will think you are devaluing her beauty. Because a woman's only neurosis is to become ugly and lose the ability to attract a man's eyes.