I was in a 16-year, dating-type relationship.

I was in a 16-year, dating-type relationship.

I was in a 16-year, dating-type relationship. It's like a car accident, nobody leaves the house thinking about crashing the car. I met her while still married, she was a co-worker of my wife, and she introduced herself to me as a friend.

She was very beautiful, blonde with green eyes, thin, tall, Giselle Bünchen, and she was soon being nice to me, a black man from Rio, later I found out that she was married to a mulatto, her friends were almost always black, that is important to say, she had a fetish for black color. We both separated, that same year I separated from my neguinha, her friend, and she separated from her husband.

Then she advanced into my already single intimacy, and I told her I wasn't interested in dating so she fell in perplexity, how was she not interested in such a beautiful muse?

So I left her more aimless when I explained the reasons for not being interested in her, even because her friend my ex was quite ugly, despite the mulatto's beautiful body, she was very ugly, so I explained that contrary to what she expected to hear I said that I couldn't date such a beautiful person, I started to avoid divas since I was 13 years old after I had a traumatic experience and I never wanted to accept relationships with very beautiful women again, it ends up turning into a process of abuse, mistreatment, lack lack of attention, lack of care, lack of affection, lack of interest, that's the reason, beautiful women don't try to please their partners.

She reacted in disbelief, laughed a lot and said I was a crazy guy.

So, challenged, she decided to harass me every weekend at the bar where I worked with my ex-wife, and I had been going there for 14 years, so she always found a way to come talk to me whenever she had a break during work.

We ended up staying; a little bar here and there; I ended up going to her house, and when we realized we were being friends; then I realized that the next step would be the bed.

So I plotted my strategy: no sex with her until I knew what she looked like.

It didn't take long for her to get pregnant and came to ask me for money to have the abortion, but from another guy; for she wanted to be with me; and, with another guy's baby, she feared I wouldn't accept it.

On the contrary, I asked her not to have an abortion, I am a Christian, I do not accept abortion; she became desperate; so i told her i would help raise the baby.

She had a very painful pregnancy, with depression, she didn't talk to the child's father, but she got along well with the mother-in-law, I mean, the mother of the child's father.

So I imagined that we would be friends from then on, but time passed, ten years passed and we were still in the same friendship, I started to participate in her family's life with all her brothers, cousins, nephews, father and mother, and when I I started thinking about making a commitment, ten years later, boom, she gets pregnant again by another guy.

I was disappointed, but the friendship continued, so I started planning my escape; I was ready to retire and I just had to file my retirement papers and wait; it took five years, when I fled to another state, already retired, 1800 km away without telling her.

She panicked, started sending erotic videos and photos, masturbating, dancing funk; this 16 years after we met, for the first time, so I got scared, because the agent had never kissed, and the only sex was five years before, out of curiosity in a motel, it was very boring, I didn't like it and neither did she, now she just talked about fucking me a lot, she wanted to be fucked until it hurt, she wanted to suck me and come in my mouth. What happened?

Could someone explain it to me properly?

I currently have another girlfriend here in the South, she is 17 years old; this story happened there in Brasilia.

And I said that I didn't want to be with her because she had all the time in the world to say these things and she wouldn't accept this manipulation, even because she got involved at least with another guy, according to the photos on social networks, putting my life and her at risk because the last guy was a murderer and was having intimate visits in the cell and had sex with her on the outskirts of the penitentiary, and he could kill her and me if he knew he was being betrayed.